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Local Washington State Resources :

If you are in crisis and need immediate help:
Crisis Clinic – 24 hour phone crisis line 866-427-4747 – or dial 211

Domestic Violence Support :

LifeWire
Coalition Ending Gender Based Violence
Domestic Abuse Women’s network
New Beginnings
YWCA Domestic Violence Advocacy

Suggested Books & Videos :

I have read these books and/or my clients have recommended them. Many of my clients have found them to be helpful. Maybe you will, too.

– Book Recommendations on Narcissism & Narcissistic Abuse –

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The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us

by Ross Rosenberg

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The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family

by Eleanor D. Payson

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The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment

by Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman and Robert M. Pressman

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Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger

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Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing The Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

by Karyl McBride, Ph.D., P.C.

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Will I Ever Be Free of You? How to Navigate a High-Conflict Divorce from a Narcissist, and Heal Your Family.

by Karyl McBride, Ph.D., P.C.

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Out of the Fog: Moving From Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse

by Dana Morningstar

– Workplace Bullying Book Recommendations –

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Beating the Workplace Bully: A Tactical Guide to Taking Charge

by Lynne Curry

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Workplace Bullying: How to Survive and Thrive with a Bully Boss

by David Leads

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The Bully at Work

by Gary Namie and Ruth Namie

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Adult Bullying-A Nasty Piece of Work: Translating a Decade of Research on Non-Sexual Harassment, Psychological Terror, Mobbing, and Emotional Abuse on the Job

by Pamela Lutgen-Sandvik

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Overcoming Mobbing: A Recovery Guide for Workplace Aggression and Bullying

by Maureen P. Duffy and Len Sperry

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Bullying: Real and lasting ways to stop bullies, stand up for yourself and overcome fear

by Alice Caldwell

– General Books on Bullying –

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Sticks and Stones: Defeating the Culture of Bullying and Rediscovering the Power of Character and Empathy

by Emily Bazelon

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Bullying: The Social Destruction of Self

by Laura Martocci

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Parent’s Guide to Preventing & Responding to Bullying

by Jason Thomas

– Book Recommendations for Parents of Girls –

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Raising Children in a Socially Toxic Environment


by James Garbarin

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Queen Bees and Wannabes by Rosalind Wiseman

by Rosalind Wiseman

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Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls

by Rachel Simmons

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Bully the Bullied & the Bystander From Preschool to High School How Parents & Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence

by Barbara Coloroso

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Odd Girl Speaks Out: Girls Write about Bullies, Cliques, Popularity, and Jealousy

by Rachel Simmons

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Words Wound: Delete Cyberbullying and Make Kindness Go Viral

by Justin W. Patchin and Sameer Hinduja

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Girls & Sex

by Peggy Orenstein

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Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls

by Mary Pipher and Sara Pipher Gilliam

– Book Recommendations for Parents of Boys –

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Raising Children in a Socially Toxic Environment


by James Garbarin

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Masterminds & Wingmen: Helping Our Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker-Room Tests, Girlfriends, and the New Rules of Boy World

by Rosalind Wiseman

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Raising Cain Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

by Dan Kindlon, Ph.D

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Bully the Bullied & the Bystander From Preschool to High School How Parents & Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence

by Barbara Coloroso

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Stand Strong: You can overcome bullying

by Nick Vujicic

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Words Wound: Delete Cyberbullying and Make Kindness Go Viral

by Justin W. Patchin and Sameer Hinduja

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Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent, and Navigating the New Masculinity

by Peggy Orenstein

Children’s Book Author Trudy Ludwig
List of Books on Bullying

“Trudy Ludwig is an internationally acclaimed speaker and award-winning author of numerous children’s books that help kids connect and engage with their peers in kinder, more caring ways. She has received rave reviews from educators, experts, organizations, and parents for her passion and compassion in addressing friendship, bullying, and cyberbullying issues. ” from her website


Informational Videos

Narcissistic Abuse

6 kinds of emotional abuse by Narcissistic Parents

8 signs you may be experiencing Narcissistic abuse – Source is Melanie Tonia Evans

Workplace Bullying

School Bullying

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